Tuesday, October 9, 2012

BLUE HUE??!


Who knew you could do so much with blue?? There are so many different shades of blue. I wore at one of my husband and I Anniversary dinners and let me just say that it looked GREAT on me.  It's actually one of my favorite pictures. I never thought of blue being one of my signature colors but I'm going to add it more often to my ensemble.  Blue can be paired and compliments with a variety of colors but I found for me blue and black and blue and gold to be two of my favorite color combination parings.  So, now I ask you ARE YOU A BLUE GIRL?? HAVE YOU TRIED PARING IT WITH ANY OTHER COLOR, if so which one?? I'd love to know.




BLUE HUE??!



Here's me in my Blue at our 8th yr wedding Anniversary Dinner at Flemings..















Denim top
$77 - eluxe.ca


Elastic waist skirt
glam-net.com


Slim fit jeans
$52 - zalando.nl


Jerome Rousseau suede booties
intermixonline.com


MICHAEL Michael Kors shoes
my-wardrobe.com


Madewell short heels
madewell.com



Sydney Evan yellow gold necklace
bergdorfgoodman.com


Lara Bohinc chain jewelry
$770 - harrods.com


Saako lace shawl
boticca.com

Tuesday, September 18, 2012

10 Makeup Mistakes that adds 10yrs

Hey Ladies, 


So I came across this article online and felt that I should share this because I totally agree with majority of the Makeup Mistakes that women are guilty of. Read it and let me know your thoughts and what you think..do you agree/disagree?? Share your thoughts in the comment box of the facebook fan page.


Mistake #1: Using Too Much Foundation

A foundation that's too thick will settle into fine lines and sap the luminosity from your skin. "Only use foundation where you need it to even out discoloration," says makeup artist Frances Hathaway. "You don't have to cover every inch of your skin." When buying a foundation, avoid those described as "matte," "velvet," and "long-wearing"; look for sheer liquid formulas with light-diffusing pigments. If you have dry skin, foundation can look patchy and accentuate discoloration, so exfoliate two to three times a week and always apply a moisturizer after cleansing. Hathaway's favorite moisturizers to use under foundation: Aveda All Sensitive Moisturizer for combination or normal skin  and Weleda Skin Food for dry skin



Mistake #2: Over-Concealing Your Under-Eye Circles

A thick concealer that comes in a stick or pot will eradicate the shadows under your eyes, but it will also draw attention to the crepiness and fine lines that usually show up in that area first (because the skin there is thin). A better option: A brush-on highlighter pen  that uses illuminating particles, not opaque color, to camouflage dark circles. Apply it only near the inner corners of your under-eye area, where shadows are most prominent (and lines least).



Mistake #3: Wearing Deep, Dark Lip Colors

A dark color makes any surface look smaller--a welcome illusion perhaps on your hips but not your lips. To make your mouth look fuller (one hallmark of a youthful face), choose bright lipsticks and glosses (peaches, pinks, vibrant reds) over deep shades (burgundies, wines, browns). Makeup artists use another trick to create the illusion of luscious lips: Before applying color, trace a highlighter pencil along your upper lip line, then buff it out with your finger.




Mistake #4: Finishing with Powder

Youthful skin reflects light. Powders prevent light reflection and tend to magnify lines in the skin. If powder has been the final step of your makeup routine since high school, it can be difficult to quit cold-turkey. Here's a three-step program: First, switch to a very sheer translucent powder. Then, start using it only on your nose and chin. Finally, trade the powder for a packet of blotting tissues--use one, only on the T-zone (nose, chin, and forehead), if you're shiny midday.





Mistake #5: Wearing Black Eyeliner

Don't skip eyeliner altogether--it's a great way to make your eyes look more open--but choose brown over black, which can be harsh. And keep the color diffuse. "You want to define the eyes with softness and blending, not strict lines," says makeup artist Troy Surratt. "A thick liner can leave the upper lids looking heavier than they are." The best technique: Trace a brown pencil liner along the upper lash line (into the roots of the lashes), focusing on the outer corners; smudge it with a Q-tip.




Mistake #6: Going Overboard with Lip Liner

A lip liner can define your lips and prevent color from feathering into any lines around the mouth--but choose one very carefully. If you line your lips too heavily, or with a color that's too dark, they'll look tight and pursed. For the most natural effect, your lip liner should match the color of your lips, not the color of your lipstick. Choose a creamy formula that won't adhere to any dry patches, and use it to fill in your lips entirely, so it wears evenly.



Mistake #7: Using Liner and Mascara on Your Lower Lashes
Playing up your lower lashes can make your eyes look droopy and draw attention to dark circles. Instead, curl your upper lashes and wiggle a volumizing mascara into their roots and slowly through the ends for the most uplifting effect. 


Mistake #8: Skipping Blush

A rosy flush on your cheeks brings instant life to your face. And, if applied correctly, blush can offer a little lift. Smile, find the fleshiest part of your cheek and apply color just slightly above it. Blend the color out toward your temples in circles, not a line, using a big fluffy brush. You want to avoid a stripe of color that stretches along your cheekbones, which can make you look drawn and hollow, says Surratt.





Mistake #9: Applying Lipstick Straight from the Tube

The borders of the lips soften with age, and any extra lipstick migrates easily. To avoid bleeding color, use your finger or a lip brush so that you don't deposit too much pigment. Concentrate the lipstick in the center of your mouth, and blend it out with a finger. Top it with a moisturizing balm or light gloss.



Mistake #10: Choosing a Too-Dark Eyebrow Pencil

"Your brow color fades as you age, so the brow pencil that you were using at 25 will look too stark against your complexion at 50," says makeup artist Denise . She recommends Maybelline Define-a-Brow Eyebrow Pencil which come in four shades. Choose the one that's a shade or two lighter than your natural brow color. If your brows are starting to get a little wiry, run a clear brow gel over them as well, brushing them up and out toward your temples.


Wednesday, August 29, 2012

**GIVING BACK**

                                           Have you always been a giver or a taker?? 


Personally I've ALWAYS given more than I've taken from people. Even when it came to people I use to hang with back in the day. I never wanted to be known as a taker or user, so I made sure I gave more than I took. I think if more of us had that mentality our world would be a better place to live in. We'd be able to tolerate each other better and certain relationships would last if we had that GIVING HEART! 

Some may say, "I don't have the money to give", or "I'm not financially able to give, I have bills to pay". Well there is good news for you, You don't have to have money to give someone your time, energy, kind words, LOVE,  encouragement, support or presence non of those requires money/cash. So no more excuses.

I can honestly say that a few of my MOST VALUABLE and most REWARDING gifts has not required money. That's right, it was FREE with many benefits. You want to know what it is, it has been PRAYER from others. That's right, PRAYER!!! Don't estimate it's power. Someone took out the "time" "energy" and thoughtfulness to pray for me. And let me tell you, it has CHANGED my life and heart FOREVER!! Although it's not something you can physically hold, but it is something that you can feel deep in your soul and it will change your spiritual life. There's nothing like spiritual peace. So when you run out of ideas of gifts to give and things you can do for someone "PRAY FOR THEM", encourage them, LOVE up on them and let them know you're praying for them and their families daily. 



Other Acts of Kindness and ways to give:

1. Mentoring "sponsor a child, be apart of their life let them know you care and love them daily"

2. Cook a Meal for a Mom that just delivered a baby, a widow, or family that just lost a loved one.

3. Clean up an Elderly person home or send a company to do it, if you're not physically able.

4. Visit a Children's Hospital bring a toy and read a book to them if possible

5. Volunteer to read to kids at your local library

6. Pay for the person that's in line with you groceries

7. Host Charity Events/Parties at your home

8. Volunteer to Babysit for a married couple one weekend

9. Deliver Fresh Baked Cookies to a neighbor or co-worker

10. Bring Flowers to someone

11. Pay for someone Starbucks Coffee/Donuts behind you in a drive-thru.

12. Pray for Someone

Just a few things of acts of kindness that I wanted to share. I will post more because you can never run out of giving ideas..it's the littlest things that has the MOST impact. Trust me, this isn't going to only bless someone else but this will ALSO bless you and make your whole. I promise once you start giving, your heart will never be the same.














Share some of your acts of Kindness and tell us how it's affected you and the impact it's made on your life (below in the comment box). 

Tuesday, August 7, 2012

AUGUST BEAUTY OF THE MONTH

FabLOcity's "AUGUST" Beauty of the Month is None other than the beautiful :                                




                     Ms. Moiro Konchellah


I've known Moiro for years and she's a very "special" young lady (and I mean that in a good way). Moiro has the sweetest heart and she's one of the kindest people I've ever met. I have to confess,  I wasn't always a fan of Moiro's..LOL.(sorry Mo). It wasn't always LOVE at first sight with she and I(well on my part), and It was because I always thought she was weird and totally didn't understand or "got" her sense of humor, so it made me stand off(ish) when it came to her. God blessed and showed me the "real" her and I have to admit..BOY WAS I WRONG, and what a lesson I learned. She is an amazing woman, fun to be around, hilarious, and most importantly, she's God-fearing, with a pure heart. Wait, did I mention that the chick can SANG??!!!! Okay, I'm not going to tell it all I'm going to allow her tell you a little more about herself...and make sure you pay attention to that sense of humor of hers..smh.lol.









                                       Getting to know our Beauty Of the Month: 


Name: Moiro Konchellah (I love my name)


Hometown: Belle Glade, FL


Age: Kissing 30 on the cheek (29 until 8/19/12)


Children: One day, after proper Protocol (Ring, Marriage, REC-reate,RE-create)


Siblings: 5-- 4sister, 1brother


Spouse: One day...#PrayChurch


Favorite Food: Pancakes, my morning dessert


Occupation: Singer/Vocal Coach


What do you enjoy doing on your Spare time?? I can confidently say that in my Spare TIme, I take the BEST naps Ever. No, they are waaay better than yours. I also enjoy pursuing natural hair-care websites & articles, and spending time with the loved ones.


Describe your Fashion/Styles?? I'd say I'm a Chameleonic, Semi-Adventurous, Put-Together Princess. Too much??*shrugs*  I've challenged myself to reshop in my closet for the year, to see how many different pairing I could come up with. I'm a firm believer in my mom's fashion mantra "Everything my my closet matches" 


Hobbies: Singing Happy Birthday to people, Karaoke-ing, Dancing( I do mean cabbage patch), Researching current and classical artist and iRun every now and then.


Inspired By: Holy Spirit, Mom and various random songs, occurrences & people


Favorite Beauty Products:  Terresentials organic hair wash(Lavender Garden), M.A.C, and E.L.F eyeshadows, Covergirl lashblast mascara, Vaseline on the kisser before bed and Water!


What are TWO things that people may or would be surprise to know about you? A) I prefer to shop solo; sometimes I shop slow, sometimes I shop quick. B) I'm a world class packer; if packing was a sport, i'd be in the London Olympics right now.


Favorite Gadget?? ummb...Go-Go-Gadget Shoes? LOL...i'm not really a gadget girl. My phone is enough, i'm app'd out.


If you could go ANYWHERE in the WOrld for FREE where would it be?? I would definitely travel to Kenya(Nairobi & Kilgoris), to spend time with my father side of the family, do missions work, and breath in the culture.


What Books do you enjoy Reading? The Bible-faith, hope, love, wisdom, help, and some interesting, intriguing characters & stories. All in one book. Score. I also love Toni Morrison's "Song Of Solomon"


Do you have any favorite Hairstyles, if so what are they?? I love big, fluffy, well-maintained natural hair, and fro hawks. I'm working towards a modern fro of Esperanza Spalding-esque proportions.


What is some of the BEST advice you've ever receive?? Phil 4:4-8...Thanks, Paul


If you could give any advice to the Ladies on the Blog what would it be? You are God's workmanship; a valuable, precious gem. Never second -guess your worth; Always allow God to polish prepare & position you. 


Do you have any hidden Talents?? Nope, I don't hide my talents! Matt: 25: 14-30!LOL


Describe your Style?? Simply put, I LOVE scarves, I love pops of color, and I love my Wonder Woman(rain) boots!



So there you have it Ladies, our August Beauty of the Month..Ms. Moiro Konchellah


Photo By: David Jackson

Moiro Performing at a concert




Moiro wearing her "favorite" boots :o)




Moiro mentioned that she LOVES singing Happy Birthday to people..she's telling the truth. Don't believe me, check out her website ---->>ORDER A SINGING GRAM<<--- and order a singing gram for your loved one. Want to see her in action, check out her website(click on the link above) and below I've added MY TOP 5 favorite grams she has done for past clients. I have more but you get the point(smile).

P.S Don't say I didn't warn or share this goodness with you. 


This is one of the grams I ordered for one of my best friends wedding anniversary. She hit this one out the park
                                              
                                         Order a gram now because this chick STAY booked..
                                                           Mo in the Lab laying down vocals and editing video grams

Saturday, July 28, 2012

Show your "boobs" some attention

 Hey Diva's


 When was the last time you have a mammogram?? If you can't remember or if you NEVER had one then maybe it's time you go get "your girls" checked. I actually received my very FIRST one just last week...although it was my FIRST mammogram it was not my FIRST time getting a breast exam. Usually my doctor would do a self check/hands on exam when I go in for my yearly physical, or they'd send me to get an ultrasound(which is good, but a mammogram can detect better). However, this time I requested and demanded an actual mammogram. I didn't request it because I felt something was wrong, or because I felt a mysterious knot in my breast, I requested it because I wanted one. I mean why not if you have the insurance to cover it?? At first my insurance wanted to say they didn't cover it(the mammogram exam) because I wasn't over 40yrs yet..which kind of puzzled me because it's not like people haven't been diagnosed with breast cancer before they even reached 40...this time I put my foot down and had my doctor REQUEST that I get an exam..and we both made it happen. All you have to do is speak up, be persistent and all things can work out for your good. :o)


Note: If you have GREAT insurance, USE IT...and get checked. 


The Actual Exam Day: 


So, I went to this health and wellness center to get the exam. Got called back, and began the process..I must say it was EXACTLY what I expected..LOL. It really wasn't painful, but it was uncomfortable. They pretty much make you take off your clothes from the waist up, drape you in a gown and place this big protector thingy(sorry don't know the technical terms) around your waist to protect your ovaries. Next, they adjust this huge machine to your height..make you step closer...as close as you can get..lift up your breast and they place your breast on this flat surface...and then...and then..and then..they turn on the machine and it presses your breast FLAT..which is so uncomfortable(lol). So they do that at every angle on both breast and VOILA...you're done. So, it's not really bad and it's SOOO worth the early detection/ prevention. The sooner you find that EVIL cancer the better off you are. 


So Ladies..GET CHECKED!!! 



BEAUTY of the MONTH ReCAP/REWIND...

 Just a reminder of our Month Beauties of the Month:


April's Beauty: MS. KRYSTAL JACKSON 



Photography By Mr. David Jackson






To Read more on Krystal and what makes her an extraordinary woman click on the link below:









May's Beauty Of the Month: Ms. Chandra Manuel 










 Just in case you missed Chandra's write up and what makes her a phenomenal woman click on her link below: 





Be sure to leave these beauties any comment or question.

Honey Mustard

                                                          Look of the Week: 






Okay, so it is indeed clear why I called this Outfit of the week Honey "Mustard" because that's the best way I can describe the color of this top I'm wearing. 

The top I'm wearing can be worn with fitted skinnies or how I chose to wear them, with leggings. I love leggings, can't you tell. LOL.  It depends on your Height with this top if this is the top for you because if you're taller i don't think you could pull this off as is, you'd have to wear a bottom.

The design on the shirt is a beautiful blossoming "TREE"

Top- The Local Boutique
Hat- Forever 21
Accessories- Fredrick's (which I wish I didn't wear with this particular outfit..my bad)
Leggings- American Apparel
Boots- The Shoe Lady Boutique(Detroit)




For any questions, comments or just feel the need to share some love, feel FREE to leave it in the comment box below(don't be shy) I don't bite..promise. Remember, God Loves you and so do I...xoxo

Friday, July 27, 2012

Sorry for my absence




Hey Ladies,

I'd like to send my apologies for my absence on my blog. I've been extremely busy with personal matter. But I'm back, and I can't wait to share my latest pictures, thoughts, looks, fashion hauls and beauty tips. Also, I'm going to post my beauty of the Month for the Month of August. Thank again to my last beauty of the Month "Chandra" for your participation.

Thanks again everyone for your patience and understanding...


Love you all,

Lo'

Sunday, May 13, 2012

MOTHER'S DAY

May 13, 2012


               
HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY
I just want to take the time out to wish each and everyone of the mother's, soon to be or mother figures in the world a HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY. I'm so pleased to know that a certain amount of people was nice and thoughtful enough to send me a HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY shout out. Although my daughter is not here with us physically, she will always be in my heart spiritually. I thank GOD for sparing her and us from suffering. I wasn't expecting anyone to wish me a HAPPY MOTHER'S day but they did and I'll forever appreciate that. Even my mom purchased me a card(I LOVE that woman). My mother is so special to me and I cannot describe her unconditional love she has for me, my husband and brothers(her children). She's indeed irreplaceable. I can write a book about her but I wont(right now ;o). I feel so honored that GOD shared her with me. I can be at least HALF the mother she is to us, I'll be the perfect mom. 


Mothers know that all your work is not in vain. You set the tone for this upcoming generation. Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old, he will not depart from it. Remember you are your kids first role models be the BEST! 



Remember, GOD loves you and so do I.

Tuesday, May 8, 2012

May's "BEAUTY" of the MONTH

 Our May's Beauty Of the Month is Ms. Chandra Manuel..

Not only is she a special friend of mine but she's an awesome phenomenal woman. She takes care of people for a living(she's a Nurse)...and what a great way to celebrate "Nurse week". Not only is she a beauty on the outside, but her inner beauty is what would make you want to get to know more of who she is, but I won't tell you too much..I'll let her bio fill you in on the "real" Chandra :o)


Getting to know a little about our BEAUTY OF THE MONTH:








    
1. Name: Chandra Manuel

2. Where are you from: 
Belle Glade, Fl

3.  How old are you if you don't mind me asking: 
   28

4. Children(?) Siblings(?) Spouse(?): 3 sisters and 3 brothers

5. What's your Favorite Food? 
  Salmon and Dixie Fried Chicken

6. What's your Occupation: 
  Registered Nurse @ Lakeland Regional Hospital

7. Chandra, what do you enjoy doing on your spare/free time? 
 Reading my Bible and spending time with my family

8. How would you describe your fashion style?
 My fashion style is fun and flirty but conservative

9. Any Hobbies? 
  I love shopping, traveling, and spending time with my family and friends

10. Who inspire you? 
 My mother

11. What are your Favorite beauty products? Bare Minerals, MAC, and Sephora

12. Name 2 things that people may not know about you:  I am extremely shy


13. What's your favorite Gadget? 
My Iphone

14. If you could go anywhere in the world for free, where would it be?? What would you do? I would love to go to Paris and relax

15. What's your favorite book? 
Let It Go (Forgive So You Can Be Forgiven) by T.D. Jakes

16. What is your favorite hairstyle? 
Normally wear hair down in a wrap

17. What's the best advice you've ever gotten??
Always stay true to yourself and follow your heart

18. If you could GIVE one piece of advice to share with the women on this blog, what would it be??
When you let go of the pain and let go of the strife you make room for more FABULOUS things to enter your life. (Think Happy Be Happy J)

19. Do you have any hidden talents?
I’m sure I have a hidden talent I just haven’t found it yet! Lol

20. Describe your look/style in the photos: 
 My fashion style is fun and flirty but conservative, I also like it switch it up sometimes(it depends on the day and occasion). This is a fun casual wear a look I can wear anywhere. I love playing and mixing up colors..especially by it being spring. 
















And there you have it Ladies..our Beauty Of the Month Ms. Chandra Manuel