**GIVING BACK**

                                           Have you always been a giver or a taker?? 


Personally I've ALWAYS given more than I've taken from people. Even when it came to people I use to hang with back in the day. I never wanted to be known as a taker or user, so I made sure I gave more than I took. I think if more of us had that mentality our world would be a better place to live in. We'd be able to tolerate each other better and certain relationships would last if we had that GIVING HEART! 

Some may say, "I don't have the money to give", or "I'm not financially able to give, I have bills to pay". Well there is good news for you, You don't have to have money to give someone your time, energy, kind words, LOVE,  encouragement, support or presence non of those requires money/cash. So no more excuses.

I can honestly say that a few of my MOST VALUABLE and most REWARDING gifts has not required money. That's right, it was FREE with many benefits. You want to know what it is, it has been PRAYER from others. That's right, PRAYER!!! Don't estimate it's power. Someone took out the "time" "energy" and thoughtfulness to pray for me. And let me tell you, it has CHANGED my life and heart FOREVER!! Although it's not something you can physically hold, but it is something that you can feel deep in your soul and it will change your spiritual life. There's nothing like spiritual peace. So when you run out of ideas of gifts to give and things you can do for someone "PRAY FOR THEM", encourage them, LOVE up on them and let them know you're praying for them and their families daily. 



Other Acts of Kindness and ways to give:

1. Mentoring "sponsor a child, be apart of their life let them know you care and love them daily"

2. Cook a Meal for a Mom that just delivered a baby, a widow, or family that just lost a loved one.

3. Clean up an Elderly person home or send a company to do it, if you're not physically able.

4. Visit a Children's Hospital bring a toy and read a book to them if possible

5. Volunteer to read to kids at your local library

6. Pay for the person that's in line with you groceries

7. Host Charity Events/Parties at your home

8. Volunteer to Babysit for a married couple one weekend

9. Deliver Fresh Baked Cookies to a neighbor or co-worker

10. Bring Flowers to someone

11. Pay for someone Starbucks Coffee/Donuts behind you in a drive-thru.

12. Pray for Someone

Just a few things of acts of kindness that I wanted to share. I will post more because you can never run out of giving ideas..it's the littlest things that has the MOST impact. Trust me, this isn't going to only bless someone else but this will ALSO bless you and make your whole. I promise once you start giving, your heart will never be the same.

Share some of your acts of Kindness and tell us how it's affected you and the impact it's made on your life (below in the comment box). 

AUGUST BEAUTY OF THE MONTH

FabLOcity's "AUGUST" Beauty of the Month is None other than the beautiful :                                




                     Ms. Moiro Konchellah


I've known Moiro for years and she's a very "special" young lady (and I mean that in a good way). Moiro has the sweetest heart and she's one of the kindest people I've ever met. I have to confess,  I wasn't always a fan of Moiro's..LOL.(sorry Mo). It wasn't always LOVE at first sight with she and I(well on my part), and It was because I always thought she was weird and totally didn't understand or "got" her sense of humor, so it made me stand off(ish) when it came to her. God blessed and showed me the "real" her and I have to admit..BOY WAS I WRONG, and what a lesson I learned. She is an amazing woman, fun to be around, hilarious, and most importantly, she's God-fearing, with a pure heart. Wait, did I mention that the chick can SANG??!!!! Okay, I'm not going to tell it all I'm going to allow her tell you a little more about herself...and make sure you pay attention to that sense of humor of hers..smh.lol.

                                       Getting to know our Beauty Of the Month: 


Name: Moiro Konchellah (I love my name)


Hometown: Belle Glade, FL


Age: Kissing 30 on the cheek (29 until 8/19/12)


Children: One day, after proper Protocol (Ring, Marriage, REC-reate,RE-create)


Siblings: 5-- 4sister, 1brother


Spouse: One day...#PrayChurch


Favorite Food: Pancakes, my morning dessert


Occupation: Singer/Vocal Coach


What do you enjoy doing on your Spare time?? I can confidently say that in my Spare TIme, I take the BEST naps Ever. No, they are waaay better than yours. I also enjoy pursuing natural hair-care websites & articles, and spending time with the loved ones.


Describe your Fashion/Styles?? I'd say I'm a Chameleonic, Semi-Adventurous, Put-Together Princess. Too much??*shrugs*  I've challenged myself to reshop in my closet for the year, to see how many different pairing I could come up with. I'm a firm believer in my mom's fashion mantra "Everything my my closet matches" 


Hobbies: Singing Happy Birthday to people, Karaoke-ing, Dancing( I do mean cabbage patch), Researching current and classical artist and iRun every now and then.


Inspired By: Holy Spirit, Mom and various random songs, occurrences & people


Favorite Beauty Products:  Terresentials organic hair wash(Lavender Garden), M.A.C, and E.L.F eyeshadows, Covergirl lashblast mascara, Vaseline on the kisser before bed and Water!


What are TWO things that people may or would be surprise to know about you? A) I prefer to shop solo; sometimes I shop slow, sometimes I shop quick. B) I'm a world class packer; if packing was a sport, i'd be in the London Olympics right now.


Favorite Gadget?? ummb...Go-Go-Gadget Shoes? LOL...i'm not really a gadget girl. My phone is enough, i'm app'd out.


If you could go ANYWHERE in the WOrld for FREE where would it be?? I would definitely travel to Kenya(Nairobi & Kilgoris), to spend time with my father side of the family, do missions work, and breath in the culture.


What Books do you enjoy Reading? The Bible-faith, hope, love, wisdom, help, and some interesting, intriguing characters & stories. All in one book. Score. I also love Toni Morrison's "Song Of Solomon"


Do you have any favorite Hairstyles, if so what are they?? I love big, fluffy, well-maintained natural hair, and fro hawks. I'm working towards a modern fro of Esperanza Spalding-esque proportions.


What is some of the BEST advice you've ever receive?? Phil 4:4-8...Thanks, Paul


If you could give any advice to the Ladies on the Blog what would it be? You are God's workmanship; a valuable, precious gem. Never second -guess your worth; Always allow God to polish prepare & position you. 


Do you have any hidden Talents?? Nope, I don't hide my talents! Matt: 25: 14-30!LOL


Describe your Style?? Simply put, I LOVE scarves, I love pops of color, and I love my Wonder Woman(rain) boots!



So there you have it Ladies, our August Beauty of the Month..Ms. Moiro Konchellah. 

Photo By: David Jackson

Moiro Performing at a concert

Moiro wearing her "favorite" boots :o)

Moiro mentioned that she LOVES singing Happy Birthday to people..she's telling the truth. Don't believe me, check out her website ---->>ORDER A SINGING GRAM<<--- and order a singing gram for your loved one. Want to see her in action, check out her website(click on the link above) and below I've added MY TOP 5 favorite grams she has done for past clients. I have more but you get the point(smile).

P.S Don't say I didn't warn or share this goodness with you. 

This is one of the grams I ordered for one of my best friends wedding anniversary. She hit this one out the park

                                              

                                         Order a gram now because this chick STAY booked..

                                                           Mo in the Lab laying down vocals and editing video grams

Show your "boobs" some attention

 Hey Diva's


 When was the last time you have a mammogram?? If you can't remember or if you NEVER had one then maybe it's time you go get "your girls" checked. I actually received my very FIRST one just last week...although it was my FIRST mammogram it was not my FIRST time getting a breast exam. Usually my doctor would do a self check/hands on exam when I go in for my yearly physical, or they'd send me to get an ultrasound(which is good, but a mammogram can detect better). However, this time I requested and demanded an actual mammogram. I didn't request it because I felt something was wrong, or because I felt a mysterious knot in my breast, I requested it because I wanted one. I mean why not if you have the insurance to cover it?? At first my insurance wanted to say they didn't cover it(the mammogram exam) because I wasn't over 40yrs yet..which kind of puzzled me because it's not like people haven't been diagnosed with breast cancer before they even reached 40...this time I put my foot down and had my doctor REQUEST that I get an exam..and we both made it happen. All you have to do is speak up, be persistent and all things can work out for your good. :o)


Note: If you have GREAT insurance, USE IT...and get checked. 


The Actual Exam Day: 


So, I went to this health and wellness center to get the exam. Got called back, and began the process..I must say it was EXACTLY what I expected..LOL. It really wasn't painful, but it was uncomfortable. They pretty much make you take off your clothes from the waist up, drape you in a gown and place this big protector thingy(sorry don't know the technical terms) around your waist to protect your ovaries. Next, they adjust this huge machine to your height..make you step closer...as close as you can get..lift up your breast and they place your breast on this flat surface...and then...and then..and then..they turn on the machine and it presses your breast FLAT..which is so uncomfortable(lol). So they do that at every angle on both breast and VOILA...you're done. So, it's not really bad and it's SOOO worth the early detection/ prevention. The sooner you find that EVIL cancer the better off you are. 


So Ladies..GET CHECKED!!! 

BEAUTY of the MONTH ReCAP/REWIND...

 Just a reminder of our Month Beauties of the Month:

April's Beauty: MS. KRYSTAL JACKSON 

Photography By Mr. David Jackson

To Read more on Krystal and what makes her an extraordinary woman click on the link below:

Get to know April's Beauty Krystal

May's Beauty Of the Month: Ms. Chandra Manuel 

 Just in case you missed Chandra's write up and what makes her a phenomenal woman click on her link below: 

May's Beauty of the Month

Be sure to leave these beauties any comment or question.

Honey Mustard

                                                          Look of the Week: 

Okay, so it is indeed clear why I called this Outfit of the week Honey "Mustard" because that's the best way I can describe the color of this top I'm wearing. 

The top I'm wearing can be worn with fitted skinnies or how I chose to wear them, with leggings. I love leggings, can't you tell. LOL.  It depends on your Height with this top if this is the top for you because if you're taller i don't think you could pull this off as is, you'd have to wear a bottom.

The design on the shirt is a beautiful blossoming "TREE"

Top- The Local Boutique
Hat- Forever 21
Accessories- Fredrick's (which I wish I didn't wear with this particular outfit..my bad)
Leggings- American Apparel
Boots- The Shoe Lady Boutique(Detroit)




For any questions, comments or just feel the need to share some love, feel FREE to leave it in the comment box below(don't be shy) I don't bite..promise. Remember, God Loves you and so do I...xoxo

Sorry for my absence

Hey Ladies,

I'd like to send my apologies for my absence on my blog. I've been extremely busy with personal matter. But I'm back, and I can't wait to share my latest pictures, thoughts, looks, fashion hauls and beauty tips. Also, I'm going to post my beauty of the Month for the Month of August. Thank again to my last beauty of the Month "Chandra" for your participation.

Thanks again everyone for your patience and understanding...


Love you all,

Lo'

MOTHER'S DAY

May 13, 2012


               

HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY

I just want to take the time out to wish each and everyone of the mother's, soon to be or mother figures in the world a HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY. I'm so pleased to know that a certain amount of people was nice and thoughtful enough to send me a HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY shout out. Although my daughter is not here with us physically, she will always be in my heart spiritually. I thank GOD for sparing her and us from suffering. I wasn't expecting anyone to wish me a HAPPY MOTHER'S day but they did and I'll forever appreciate that. Even my mom purchased me a card(I LOVE that woman). My mother is so special to me and I cannot describe her unconditional love she has for me, my husband and brothers(her children). She's indeed irreplaceable. I can write a book about her but I wont(right now ;o). I feel so honored that GOD shared her with me. I can be at least HALF the mother she is to us, I'll be the perfect mom. 

Mothers know that all your work is not in vain. You set the tone for this upcoming generation. Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old, he will not depart from it. Remember you are your kids first role models be the BEST! 

Remember, GOD loves you and so do I.